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Would you date someone who has never been in a relationship?

(Assuming you and the other person are both single adults and are roughly whatever age you are now.)

Posted - August 28, 2019

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  • 46117

    ???  That would be totally weird since I am pushing 70.  What kind of person has had no relationship for 7 decades?  Is it a serial killer?  How about someone who has personality "issues" that are so serious that no relationship formed for seventy years.  

    Or is it someone who just was released from a life sentence?   An ex-priest who decided he just wasn't cut out for the clergy?

    I think I'll take my chances in the real world with the normal non-virgins.
     
     
    This post was edited by WM BARR . =ABSOLUTE TRASH at August 29, 2019 9:25 PM MDT
      August 29, 2019 1:08 AM MDT
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  • Forget prior relationships...

    I won't even date someone who has never been on answerMug?

    Which would explain how I ended up with a Goat, so to speak.
      August 29, 2019 1:13 AM MDT
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  • 46117
    So.  This is what you tell your boy?  That out of all the members of Answer Mug, you like him best?

    He must be totally humbled by that.  TOTALLY.  


      August 29, 2019 12:47 PM MDT
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  • That gets an "LOL"
      August 29, 2019 2:33 PM MDT
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  • 19942
    No.  Like Ms. Hurricane, I'm in my 70s and I would think that someone my age would have some "issues" if he never had a relationship in all that time. 
      August 29, 2019 5:16 AM MDT
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  • 5391
    No, I have no interest in “breaking in” another one. 

    Heheh
      August 29, 2019 6:06 AM MDT
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  • No, I want the person I’m dating to see how wonderful I am, in comparison to all his crazy ex’s. I like a person with baggage. 

      August 29, 2019 6:10 AM MDT
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  • 52950

      Ergo, Jaimie and Randy D.


    ~
      August 29, 2019 6:33 AM MDT
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  • 46117
    Jaimie, Did you notice that everyone seems to want to turn Japanese for you?

    I am noticing that. This post was edited by WM BARR . =ABSOLUTE TRASH at September 2, 2019 9:23 PM MDT
      August 29, 2019 12:49 PM MDT
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  •   August 29, 2019 5:49 PM MDT
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  • I can’t carry all this....
      August 29, 2019 5:48 PM MDT
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  • 52950

      Wait a minute . . . there's actually a woman who is willing to schlep all of my baggage but none of her own?  Wow,  I think it's TRUE lust I've found at last! 

    ~
      August 29, 2019 9:50 PM MDT
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  • Ooopsie. I messed up the word:  I can’t Wont carry this around. 
      August 29, 2019 10:26 PM MDT
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  • 52950

      Heyyyy! Grrrrr.

      August 29, 2019 10:29 PM MDT
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  • 32721
    It would not necessarily be a deal breaker. But it would be a caution flag, wondering about the baggage that comes with no prior relationships. 

    This post was edited by my2cents at September 2, 2019 3:41 AM MDT
      August 29, 2019 6:51 AM MDT
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  • 17423
    Doubtful.  Such a person would expectedly be self-absorbed.
      August 29, 2019 10:26 AM MDT
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  • 10554
    I would but I would be tempted to take advantage of the lack of relationship experience by saying things like in a new relationship its customary for the lady to buy the beer and buy thoughtful gifts for the Gentlemen's man cave. Cheers! 
      August 29, 2019 10:44 AM MDT
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  • 7919
    LMAO That's brilliant!
      August 29, 2019 9:27 PM MDT
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  • No
      August 29, 2019 10:53 AM MDT
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  • 22944

    If everyone says no, then no one would ever date or be in a relationship, I guess. People who have never dated would not stand a chance of ever dating. All dating would end.



    Personally, I would leave the possibility open to dating, yes.
    :)
     
     
    This post was edited by WelbyQuentin at August 29, 2019 9:27 PM MDT
      August 29, 2019 11:44 AM MDT
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  • 46117
    Does he have two eyes and pants? Then he is okay.  LOLOLOLOL
      August 29, 2019 12:50 PM MDT
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  • 6023
    2 eyes and pants:

      August 29, 2019 1:06 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    Now I see how Welby feels.  WHO COULD NOT LOVE THIS GUY?????
      August 29, 2019 1:10 PM MDT
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  • 22944
    Very true!
    :)
      August 29, 2019 7:54 PM MDT
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